I've struggled to find the right shoe until my mid 30s.
It turns out I just had 4E wide feet. Combined with New Balance, my feet have been really happy.
993 blue - bought wrong size
928 (white/white) - my favorite! They look beautiful and super most comfortable
928 (white/leather white) - wow, these are just great. They are like $150+, but this is it.
Big downside is that these get dirty very easily. One step on dirt and the white mesh is toast. But these are so comfortable.
813 - Bought on Mercari (perfect)
812 - for some reason i don't remember these
623 v3 - a little pointy on front, squeaky bottom, feels a tad bit tight in the toe area
608 v5 - feels a little tight in the toe area
587 - wrong size
574 v1 - bought wrong size